They way she ties it to me is this: I’m usually laying on the bed on my back, wrists tied to the bedposts. We’ve also done this standing up with a lot of success as well. The she positions it between my legs with the head pointed straight up so that the head it pressing up against my frenulum (that spot on the underside of my penis where the head meets the shaft). That’s the most sensitive spot. Using 1/4″ cotton braid rope (the most comfortable), she wraps it around my shaft and the vibrator, binding them together. It’s possible to make it too tight so she’s learned the appropriate tension and I also need to note that I have to be hard to do this. When she loops the rope around the vibrator, she always wraps it between the vibrator head and shaft (there is a smaller shaft there). This seems to hold it in the right place so that no amount of wiggling around will move it. Then she ties my knees together which also helps to hold the MW in place and restricts my movement. Usually she will tie my ankles to the baseboard as well to ensure that I can’t reach the ties on my wrists by sliding up the bed inchworm style. Then she can just turn it on and watch. It’s quite effective and I have to admit that no matter what I try I can’t last more than about 5 minutes. We’ve played all kinds of games like “if you cum in less than X minutes then I do … to you”. No matter how bad she makes the “…” I still can’t make it. One more note about the tie … she wraps it around about 3 times, much like you would just tie 2 sticks together … nothing fancy. But doing this holds it firmly in place. I’m very ticklish and spasm somewhat violently when she tickles me and this is another thing she enjoys to torture me. But no matter how violently I thrust about, the MW stays put and continues to push me closer and closer to orgasm. Again, this makes it perfect for forced orgasm play because, in all sincerity, there is no way that I can keep from cumming once she turns it on. And she usually leaves it on for 30 seconds to a minute after I cum which is quite uncomfortable. I would do anything to move it off my frenulum at that point but again, no amount of movement on my part helps if she has tied it correctly. It takes a bit of experimentation to decide that the right way is for each guy since everyone is a bit different, but once you find it … it’s a great ride.

It’s actually the only toy that I can say is capable of making me cum hands free with 100% reliability. I can’t cum with the vibration just on my perineum but it does feel good and is often a good warm up.

Thanks again for the great article and happy vibrating!