One of the surprising lessons I’ve learned exploring my sexuality is just how cautious one should be when using the word impossible. I’m already become increasingly proficient in one sexual art I once thought to be impossible, non-ejaculatory male multiple orgasm. Yesterday, I confirmed that I can perform another trick I once thought impossible, here is the Tweet:
Things I have discovered today: If aroused enough I can achieve non-ejaculatory orgasm just by imagination and contracting my PC muscles.
That’s right folks I can actually come without touching anything now. I say confirmed in the paragraph above because yesterday is not the first time I’ve experienced this.
The first time I’ve experienced this was after reading Alexa di Carlo’s post Invitation to a Gang Bang (The authors of that post has hence been demonstrated to be a fraud, hence removal of the link). After reading it I imagined the scenario 10 men, one woman, double penetrations, triple penetrations, bareback, cum everywhere…before I knew it I was closing my eyes and without even realizing it I started contracting my PC muscles and suddenly a jolt of pleasure rushed across my body. “Did I just come(1)?” I couldn’t believe it but ever since then I’ve been waiting for Nov 1st (the date of her gang bang) in order to confirm this experience. I had figured I would need the nearly supernatural level of arousal that group sex can trigger in me under the right circumstances to be able to replicate this. Yesterday, I discovered, nope I don’t need gangbang induced super-arousal to perform this feat (still looking forward to reading about Alex’s gangbang thou. :-))
Yesterday, I decided to download and watch some porn (rough face fucking and slapping). I’ve been busy doing/freaking out over an assignment for one of my class to that point that I’d haven’t done anything remotely sexual in a good week. That combined with the intensity of my porn selection had me very aroused. As I was watching the porn, I started to contract my PC muscles, trying to match to intensity of the contraction to the vigorousness of the on screen thrusting. As I did this, the sensations became increasingly pleasurable and to my own amazement I started to feel the sensation of urgency that comes as one approaches orgasm and eventually I had a non-ejaculatory orgasm… without touching myself. This was fucking awesome. I could hardily believe it so after processing it I sat down, watched some more porn, and tried intentional to do it again. This time there was no denying it my breathing shifted, my heart rate spiked, and pleasure rippled thru me. I had intentionally managed to give myself an orgasm just via mental/visual stimulation and PC muscles contraction without touching myself in anyway. Incredible!
What do I credit with my newfound ability (and the already discovered ability to control ejaculation and have multiple orgasms) to? As the title suggests I have been religiously doing Kegel exercises for the past four months and I tweeted that as well:
Why the fuck did no one tell me about Kegel exercises of sooner? I didn’t even think this was possible. These things are miracles workers.
Seriously, this would have been so much more useful to learn in high school then the difference between sine, cosine, and tangent.
So, if you aren’t doing Kegel Exercises for the love of sex, God, Buddha, Satan, whatever the fuck it is you believe in…Google it and start working that pubococcygeus muscle!
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